Start With the Real Issue
Define the Decision in a Child Custody Matter
The starting point is the child's current routine, each parent's role, existing orders, decision-making history, and the specific arrangement being requested.
A useful consultation is more focused when the immediate objective, the people involved, the current procedural posture, and any deadline or upcoming event are identified before solutions are discussed.
- Understand the present caregiving arrangement
- Develop a child-focused parenting proposal
- Identify evidence relevant to disputed issues

